Someone who makes you feel like dirt when you've clearly done nothing wrong is not worth your time or energy. Regardless of what you think you feel, love and infatuation are not the same thing. Don't let someone drop the L word too fast. Be wary of manipulation. Don't be afraid to put yourself first; it isn't a selfish act to take care of yourself. Relationships aren't give & take, they're give & give. Respect, honor, integrity -- these are key components to a good partner. How do they treat their family? That's how they'll treat you.