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  1. #1098992017-04-06 18:31:39Kinnear said:

    I'd never date rude or confrontational people. I'm one of those overly cheery hyper-optimists that exude positivity and I don't like to be around negative people for extended periods of time.

    I don't think I'd date anyone with poor mental health. This might seem insensitive, but I've been in a relationship in the past with someone who suffered from MDD (Major Depressive Disorder), and suicidal tendencies. It was really emotionally draining, and hard for me to deal with. Over the few years I was with her I changed from a very sympathetic, emotional person to who I am now, an apathetic dude who has trouble speaking about serious issues, especially those dealing with negative emotions.

    But thankfully I don't really need to worry about dating. I have Holly, and expect to for a very long time. :)

  2. #1099002017-04-06 18:36:39DarkChaplain said:

    I can relate. Had an ex with self-harm tendencies (though thankfully I mostly got her to drop those outside of extreme stress situations), and her past baggage made it very, very difficult. It was draining as fuck, you got it right there. Its often like you're walking on eggshells and her condition drags you down with her..