Mental Illness - Or the lack of willingness to care for it, I've dealt with years of mental illness as well as family who have and if you're not interested in taking care of your mental health, neither am I. It's not my job, I'm not your mother. You would take care of your physical health by taking medication every day if you had Crohns but you won't take your anti-depressants? mood stabilizers? no thank you.
Mothering - Men who expect me to cook for them when I come home, do all the dishes and laundry. Absolutely the fuck not, I have a full time job, and am not, again, your god-damn mother.
Obviously Drug Abuse - You can smoke weed and cigarettes, take a bump here and there but if you need something to get you going in the morning and at all hours, I'll past. Have dealt with addiction in the past, it's impossibly hard to deal with and I'm not ruining myself for anyone, already been there done that.
Actors/Directors/Musicians - I'm from LA so I feel like people from big cities will get this. I don't want! Someone who's going to be an uber driver until he's fucking 40 because he got into one commercial 3 years ago and his acting dreams are "happening soon", I need someone with actual goals who has realistic views on how life is going to play out.
Australians - Also, specific to LA, there are always fucking Australians here tryna get their Green Card, homie go through your bullshit alone. (Deftones ill help u tho)
Ego - Again, relative to living in LA, a lot of the guys here think that they're god's gift to women, earth, and everyone they've ever met. I'm not interested in the fact that you're loaded if you're still living with your parents and you being loaded is your dad having a successful business. It's not impressive.
Entrepreneurs - Self explanatory. Don't talk to me if you're doing your own start up that's clearly fucking stupid.
Judgy Assholes - I know that cigarettes cause cancer, I'm from the same century as the rest of you. I don't need to be reminded that I'm going to die every single time I put a cigarette in my mouth, chances are you're gonna die of rectal cancer, so who gives a fuck? There's a difference with caring for someone and being a naggy asshole.
Argumentative/Disrespectful - By no means do I want my partner to shut the fuck up or never speak up, but I've dated some assholes who tell me I'm "too young, how would you know that?" or, my favorite, "you're so tiny it's so cute when you're mad" get the fuck out of here like, yesterday. I cannot stand being treated like a kid because I'm small. I don't need you to constantly try and teach me things. I know. Also, if you're trying to pick fights over dumb shit - get out of my face lol.
I'm sick of dating in LA someone fucking save me
Thanks for reaffirming that L.A. is pretty garbage and full of twats.
Also, I'd advise you to stop smoking. Shit ain't attractive. But being short is justice, so take pleasure in it, not annoyance. I feel safe in being judgemental and naggy here, for obvious reasons.
@DarkChaplain didn't start smoking to be attractive to the rest of the world! actually started because my job wouldnt give me breaks (middle eastern owned, you could take a million cig breaks but god forbid you go to the bathroom)
on another note, dont come here. everyone really fucking sucks
@Kyuuun Totally thought the Australian bit was gonna be a personal attack ahahahaha