Too busy/tired/stressed for cuffing. Is it just me or does it use too much emotional energy to pair off and still remain a good other half? Also, I seem to be far too interested in complicated people...this sucks as it ends up meaning more effort and more stress.
Is it just me or does it use too much emotional energy to pair off and still remain a good other half?
I've felt that way as well so you're definitely not alone. But I'd like to think it's because I wasn't in the right place at that time. Too many things going on and I barely had the energy to deal with myself. I mean, that's not really an optimal time to bring someone else into your life.
So hey, maybe there's nothing wrong with us personally. It's might just be the circumstances
@DictatorHilton You're probs right there. I think it is totally circumstancial and may even be a sign we're not totally broken that we actually care enough to not subject someone else to that. Besides, it's nice to sometimes wallow in a little selfishness from time to time and not stress about another thing that could go wrong.
Right now, I quite like being unattached and actively being so. The world of couples looks a little different as an observer...