Too busy/tired/stressed for cuffing. Is it just me or does it use too much emotional energy to pair off and still remain a good other half? Also, I seem to be far too interested in complicated people...this sucks as it ends up meaning more effort and more stress.
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#114917 • 2018-10-18 21:00:42 • Taro_Tanako said: -
#114928 • 2018-10-19 08:16:49 • DictatorHilton said: Is it just me or does it use too much emotional energy to pair off and still remain a good other half?
I've felt that way as well so you're definitely not alone. But I'd like to think it's because I wasn't in the right place at that time. Too many things going on and I barely had the energy to deal with myself. I mean, that's not really an optimal time to bring someone else into your life.
So hey, maybe there's nothing wrong with us personally. It's might just be the circumstances
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#115106 • 2018-10-30 22:19:13 • Taro_Tanako said: @DictatorHilton You're probs right there. I think it is totally circumstancial and may even be a sign we're not totally broken that we actually care enough to not subject someone else to that. Besides, it's nice to sometimes wallow in a little selfishness from time to time and not stress about another thing that could go wrong.
Right now, I quite like being unattached and actively being so. The world of couples looks a little different as an observer...