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Parent: Tell me about your dating life

  1. #1150022018-10-25 01:39:20Sage_Phantomhive said:

    @Farris Yes, they have given me decent advice except for that butthurt darkchaplain person. I can't bring myself to leave him. It's just been too long. But I have mentioned it to him many many times. He's just shy and doesn't put in effort. I suppose it's more complicated than a 1 sentence venting post. Also, he doesn't even know this forum exists. Forums in general aren't his thing.

  2. #1150122018-10-25 21:50:45c1arcy said:

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    Can I just make the point that it's not just his problem if the sex is bad? You have had SEVEN years to improve it with him. It's a two way street. If you're not enjoying yourself, you take the initiative to show him how its done and what you like. Sex with another person ain't gonna help you especially if you're not equally putting in the effort. It's an issue you both have to sort with yourselves. He might be inexperienced in the sense of he's only done it with another person but if you're having sex with him and you're not enjoying it, it's on you to tell him what you would like and it's on him to adhere as much as you have to listen to him too.