@InsaneBoredGame, well when I do that approach, nothing happens lol.
@hellstorm901, awe, and why is that...?
@Noodle, oh my Noodle, I remember you from the old times! Hello again! and congrats on your trip to Japan, how long are you staying?
@AnaMiaLaura-chan, I can relate to that...sometimes I don't feel like going unless people 'bribe' me with their "it'll be fun" pleas. haha.
@Camellia, I think I remember you too from the old times, and wow, fiance! congrats on a huge life changer. Excuse my ignorance when it comes to ranking, what color belt are you getting in the arts?
@Jasphers, apparently you're one of the few that can pull it off.
@Revenga, is it usually drama??
Sorry if it seems weird that I responded to all of you in one post. But I legitimately like the responses and felt the need to reply!
As for myself, I never tend to make any 'serious' engagements unless I'm doing it on the behalf of someone else (parties, cookouts, gatherings).
My thinking is that if I put too much 'effort' or feelings into something that I want a certain way and it turns for the worst, I'd feel like crud... so I tend to do a spur-of-the-moment, last minute sort of plans.