If you want to get a divorce, go ahead. If you don't, please sort out your darn issues. Do not throw them on me; do not involve my sister.
You have no right to rebuke me for being concerned over any of my family members. It is utterly natural. Even though you were less than privileged as a child, and you keep complaining about the lack of concern over you, I can't do anything about it. I absolutely have no control over your past. You also seem too wrapped up in self-pity to see all the shows of affection around you.
Leave me out of it.
With frustration, R