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Relationship Advice, Tips, & Questions

  1. #1022712016-05-10 07:14:11Kuroba_Loki said:

    When in a relationship, there will always be a time when either of you is looking for more than just a touch of a hand, an occasional hug, or the like..

    How should you disperse this situation or how should you start a conversation that will lead to it??

  2. #1022822016-05-10 07:45:46Kuroba_Loki said:

    No no, I'm asking for ways to do both :D

    I mean, if you want to start a convo leading to it, what do you do?

    Then if you want to avoid it, what do you do?

  3. #1022842016-05-10 07:49:20Lieutenant said:

    if you want to start a convo leading to it, what do you do?

    Just talk about it? It's usually very simple to me like that. Unless if you're shy, I don't know.

    if you want to avoid it, what do you do?

    I change topic and tell that I'm not in the mood.

    I'm just saying it accordingly to my experience at the moment. since, just virtual touch.. but if real life, I feel like it'll go the same way for me, plus the touching/or not touching, because physical opportunity.

  4. #1023182016-05-10 23:18:54 *Rinneko said:

    You could wait for them to hold your hand/hug you/etc and then bring it up with a "by the way..." It'll be marginally less awkward compared to bringing the topic up out of nowhere.

  5. #1023522016-05-11 05:07:37Ha_Ru_Ka said:

    Tips:

    -Be kind to him/her and people around you.

    -Be a gentleman.

    -Become his/her friend.

    -Stay awesome and cool without showing off.

    -Confess ASAP.

  6. #1069392016-09-13 01:07:12 *EvoRulz said:

    Don't confess too soon that you are fickle

    Don't confess too late that you are obsessed

    Being friends for a long period of time is good

    If you don't feel like they might like you back, be careful.

  7. #1069402016-09-13 01:18:24supergal_gene said:

    Ahahaha props to you that you know about "walang forever" xDD

    I've finally come into conclusion that I should not like guys and be a nun xD

  8. #1070982016-09-19 10:32:10supergal_gene said:

    So my guy best friend told me to give hints to the guy I like but let him do the first move. How to even give hints that won't seem TOO.. err.. obvious? And I'm shy af so yeah..

  9. #1071032016-09-19 13:38:38Xyopq said:

    Are you friends with this guy? Giving hints to someone you know as a friend or someone you know in passing needs different tact.