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  1. I JUST GOT DUMPED BUT...


    #202802012-03-30 06:42:20MyogiWarrior34 said:

    It's weird... Had a drink party with her and another workmate of ours before today... To think a great night would greet me before dusk's arrival and turn out so anti-climatic.

    But that's not what's weird... I was expecting to be dumped in the first place Then it did, via text message. Though my eyes start to water, I was smiling. Maybe it was because she told me her true feelings. The end was already there before my feelings deepened for her. I know this is gonna happen.

    Do you think it's normal to think this way in a blooming relationship that ends being cut off? I wanna hear your thoughts on this everyone.

    P.S. The linked song pretty much describes the moments I had with her, where it never got into "THAT". This is no exaggeration.


    "'Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all." -Alfred Lord Tennyson

  2. #202902012-03-30 09:25:57MyogiWarrior34 said:

    @One, thanks for that. @Kirn, Got it better? Despite the fact that part of me feels that I was used by her (Want me to drop list the things I've done?)? And how is it any better?

  3. #202922012-03-30 10:00:25 *DSP said:

    wow, s'pretty cold to be dumped by text, I mean really cold, -pats myogi's shoulder- you got out while you still could, stay positive yo, perhaps have a kit kat.

    Kit kats always help.

    Not too many though.

    Cus that could fuck you up.

    Srz, kit kat overdose is srz bzns.

  4. #202992012-03-30 11:16:24Shirosuke said:

    It's a rejection, not being dumped. Being dumped means you had a relationship then she broke up with you.

    It's ok, we all get rejected at some point in our lives. Just keep looking until someone says yes.

  5. #203072012-03-30 14:08:39kosuke said:

    You got truth, you got it fast enough. It is almost as good as it could be.

    I fully agree with this. It's better to have received the truth quickly than to be led on and/or left wondering where you stand.

  6. #203482012-03-31 01:28:22Maudia said:

    Ouch, that's rough.

    But it's better that it's out in the open, and it's over so you can find someone who'll treat you better.

  7. #204092012-04-01 01:18:02MyogiWarrior34 said:

    Everyone, thanks for your Concern & Advice. Slowly, I'll be able to get over her.

    @Yotsuba, I never intended it to be one at all (a sexual relatio I mean). I'm not like the crowd. I want to keep it a pure relationship, not tainted with such. I look at it very differently.

    @Kirn, why do you have to be so STRAIGHT TO THE POINT!? Even I told myself that but I ignored :P But yeah; better to receive it now than never; however... @Chestnut_Rice, @Maudia, & @DSP have a valid point too - I would've taken it easier if we were face to face when she said this.

    It won't hurt to see her one last time after that right? I'm going to see her tonight; one last time. I'm in my last night in Australia after all.

  8. #204222012-04-01 03:49:28Chestnut_Rice said:

    @MyogiWarrior34 No don't do it she's an alpha bitch and should go die in a hole like the whore she is. You probably should've given it to her before she ran off like a slut to some body else. >:| Aaah I'm so mad. ; _ ;

  9. #205032012-04-01 12:40:11MyogiWarrior34 said:

    So I went tonight with my classmate, who says he's treating me for dinner as a farewell gift. And I remember that my superior is waiting for me to show up to have dinner at the restaurant, Kamikaze at Surfers Paradise.

    So we went... she was there... even me, as a customer, she didn't take notice, she ignored and just went around our table. My Brazilian friend / co-worker was the one who served us.

    Not a single "HI" or smile came from her when she saw me. She was like that the whole night. I stayed until closing and noticed her while saying my last few words to my other workmates. But at least, I get to see her lay her hair down while she finishes work. Trust me, she's a hell of a lot prettier with her hair down. SO yeah; it's intimacy FROM A DISTANCE. Superior encouraged me to talk to her one last time, I declined the encouragement and told him, 'I'll let FB do the talking' since I left my sayonara post to her there in Japanese.

    But yeah; @Chestnut_Rice, I know you're so mad hearing my predicament, you were half right; I shouldn't have gone at all only to see her ignore me from the very moment I entered the resto (as a customer, not anymore as her co-worker) up to closing time. But seeing her for one last time, I'm satisfied.