Make a friend!

Join a laid-back, close-knit community of mixed interests Get a free account!

99th percentile

No badges yet

I'm Sage. I like music and anime.

Sage_Phantomhive joined on Jul 16th, 2018, since that has made 17 posts that are still accessible today, 0 of which are threads. Helping shape the community, Sage_Phantomhive has given 21 upvotes, and was last online on Oct 27th, 2018.

  • In Tell me about your dating life

    Okay, I'm basically going to make a very thorough reply so all of you jerks, and people giving advice, can see. My one sentence vent was not meant to draw this much attention because it shouldn't be that big of a deal to those who don't know me and this is a common problem among couples that obviously a lot of you haven't heard of. So let me be clear to you all. I have no intention of leaving someone simply because they aren't good at sex. To me at least, relationships are built on more than just sex. In other words, there are reasons that I've stuck around for this long. If some of you guys disagree, that's fine. It's honestly none of my business. Second, we have talked about this many times. At one point HE wanted to try an open relationship which, oddly enough, improved our relationship. However, HE also chose to close it because he just wanted it to be a simple relationship again. I agreed to these things to give him a chance to explore and maybe gain confidence. I think something that was important for me was for him is to gain confidence in himself. However, he is just a goofy, silly guy who can't take anything seriously. That is my favorite thing about him. But it unfortunately comes through during sex. And yes, it is frustrating and I miss experiencing other people sometimes, as I've mentioned, but I doubt other people could re-create the same connection me and him both have as a couple. My mistake was ultimately humoring some of you with other posts to get you guys off of my back. And some of you guys sound like little high school kids who have no idea how a real relationship even works. I have to wonder if any of you have even been in a relationship longer than 2 years. For those of you who have given advice, thank you. But with all due respect, we obviously differ when it comes to ideas on what to do in this type of situation. Also, I've decided to make this into a new post rather than reply to the main thread so that all of you can see. I've been trying to reply to the thread in a normal way but it won't allow this feature on my phone.

  • In Tell me about your dating life

    @Farris Yes, they have given me decent advice except for that butthurt darkchaplain person. I can't bring myself to leave him. It's just been too long. But I have mentioned it to him many many times. He's just shy and doesn't put in effort. I suppose it's more complicated than a 1 sentence venting post. Also, he doesn't even know this forum exists. Forums in general aren't his thing.

  • In Tell me about your dating life

    @--Jack-- I've actually heard lots of stories on an app called Eve. Girls talk about their sex lives all the time on there and I was actually surprised to see that this is a common problem. I've been with him for 7 years now though. It's been a really long time and I have no intention of leaving him. He's a really great guy and really nice. His issue is that he's only slept with one other person. He doesn't have experience at all and is really shy so he has no intention of getting better. It sucks but I've delt with it. But I know a lot of people that would totally not deal be able to live with this forever. I think if I've been able to stick around for this long, sex seems to have come in second for me. It's just frustrating sometimes.

  • In Tell me about your dating life

    @DarkChaplain Dude, shut up lol

  • In Tell me about your dating life

    @DictatorHilton Thanks for the understanding. Yeah I really do love him very much. We've been together for a long time and usually I just get over the whole sex thing in ways like obviously using my hand for one lol But sometimes I get frustrated that it's always mediocre. But for the record, I was his first girlfriend and the second person he's ever slept with. He doesn't really have any experience and he doesn't really try to get better. I will never have another connection with anyone else this strong so I get passed it . I remember when I was younger, I had a really great sex life so to go from a great sex life to a terrible one is tough. Actually, it's never been that tough. Just lately, my friends have been talking a lot about their sex lives and I kind of get jealous.

  • In Tell me about your dating life

    @DarkChaplain You don't know anything about my relationship other than what I said. I've been with him for a long time because I love him as a person. Not because I care that much about my sex life. It's a topic that frustrates me which is why I posted it on this forum. You should have debated with yourself a little longer about posting that.

  • In Tell me about your dating life

    Been in a relationship for 7 years. Sometimes I wish I could experience other people. BF sucks at sex.

  • In What Are Your Favorite Cutscenes/Moments in Gaming?

    Pretty much every The Evil Within cut scene

  • In What Are You Thinking Right Now

    My fiance broke my toe on accident but I'm totally furious even though it was an accident. I feel like I can't do anything and I'm getting call backs for interviews but can't walk. Luckily most places have been understanding and even found it to be a little funny so I'm still able to attend the interviews but I don't know if they would really hire a person who can't walk properly for a while.

  • In Underrated Anime Series: Series that you thought didn't get enough credit

    Cardcaptor Sakura. I always loved how the characters were designed and I liked the story more than Sailor Moon.